If you are anything like Ms. Day, wine-lover extraordinaire, you need nary an excuse to pay a visit to the fine folks at the Maryland House at Brennans (4659-A Maryland Avenue; 314-361-9444). And when the wine bar is holding its monthly Arguments & Grievances event, Day has an even more difficult time thinking of a reason not to go. See, beneath her sugar-sweet exterior, she has a bit of an argumentative -- nay, sassy -- side, and therefore, she really enjoys listening to a pair of gentle people publicly debate the finer points of relevant topics like blonde vs. brunette, to name one such past argument wrangled. If you, too, would relish hearing a variety of grievances aired, arrive at the Maryland House no later than 8:30 p.m. on the first Wednesday of each month. For an up-to-date list of topics and the names of those who will defend them, visit www.yesnoyesno.com. There is no charge to attend.